One of the coaches at my son's after school threatened me and my son that if he keeps being defiant, he will be suspended from the after school program. I feel so angry when a school staff is incompetent and don't know what to do, but wants to make my son at fault. I don't like people who are on a power trip. I keep getting the message that my son has to be neurotypical to go to school. I had a client with high functioning autism who told me "People at school never accepted me, but I was being best me." Is school a safe place for kids with neurodevelopmental disorders? I don't know whom to trust anymore.